"I
Can Make It Happen"
History
abounds with tales of experts who were convinced that the
ideas, plans, and projects of others could never be
achieved. However, accomplishment came to those who said,
"I can make it happen."
The
Italian sculptor Agostino d'Antonio worked diligently on a
large piece of marble. Unable to produce his desired
masterpiece, he lamented, "I can do nothing with
it." Other sculptors also worked this difficult piece
of marble, but to no avail. Michelangelo discovered the
stone and visualized the possibilities in it. His
"I-can-make-it-happen" attitude resulted in one
of the world's masterpieces - David.
The
experts of Spain concluded that Columbus's plans to
discover a new and shorter route to the West Indies was
virtually impossible. Queen Isabella and King Ferdinand
ignored the report of the experts. "I can make it
happen," Columbus persisted. And he did. Everyone
knew the world was flat, but not Columbus. The Nina, the
Pinta, the Santa Maria, along with Columbus and his small
band of followers, sailed to "impossible" new
lands and thriving resources.
Even
the great Thomas Alva Edison discouraged his friend, Henry
Ford, from pursuing his fledgling idea of a motorcar.
Convinced of the worthlessness of the idea, Edison invited
Ford to come and work for him. Ford remained committed and
tirelessly pursued his dream. Although his first attempt
resulted in a vehicle without reverse gear, Henry Ford
knew he could make it happen. And, of course, he did.
"Forget
it," the experts advised Madame Curie. They agreed
radium was a scientifically impossible idea. However,
Marie Curie insisted, "I can make it happen."
Let's
not forget our friends Orville and Wilbur Wright.
Journalists, friends, armed forces specialists, and even
their father laughed at the idea of an airplane.
"What a silly and insane way to spend money. Leave
flying to the birds," they jeered. "Sorry,"
the Wright brothers responded. "We have a dream, and
we can make it happen." As a result, a place called
Kitty Hawk, North Carolina, became the setting for the
launching of their "ridiculous" idea.
Finally,
as you read these accounts under the magnificent lighting
of your environment, consider the plight of Benjamin
Franklin. He was admonished to stop the foolish
experimenting with lighting. What an absurdity and waste
of time! Why, nothing could outdo the fabulous oil lamp.
Thank goodness Franklin knew he could make it happen. You
too can make it happen!
15
Ways to Enhance Your Day
- Get up
early.
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- Look
around outside before going to work
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- Relax
and enjoy your meals.
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- Spend
time with friends.
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- Pace
yourself.
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- Find a
quiet place to go to.
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- Praise
yourself and others.
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- Develop
positive relationships.
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- See your
mistakes as stepping stones.
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- Keep
track of your own moods so you can watch out for them.
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- Say No
without feeling guilty.
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- Learn
effective time management.
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- Pay
attention to health, diet and sleep.
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- Exercise
regularly.
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- Keep
from comparing yourself to others.
Things
We Can Learn from a Dog ..
- Never
pass up the opportunity to go for a joy ride.
- Allow
the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face
to be pure ecstasy.
- When
loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
- When
it's in your best interest, practice obedience.
- Let
others know when they've invaded your territory.
- Take
naps and stretch before rising.
- Run,
romp and play daily.
- Eat with
gusto and enthusiasm.
- Be
loyal.
- Never
pretend to be something you're not.
- If what
you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
- When
someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by
and nuzzle them gently.
- Thrive
on attention and let people touch you.
- Avoid
biting when a simple growl will do.
- On hot
days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
- When
you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
- No
matter how often you're scolded, don't buy into the
guilt thing and pout .. run right back and make
friends.
- Delight
in the simple joys of a long walk.
Things
To Remember
I find what
I look for in people. If I look for God, I find God. If I
look for bad qualities, I find them. I, in a sense, select
what I expect, and I receive it.
A life
without challenges would be like going to school without
lessons to learn. Challenges come not to depress or get me
down, but to master and to grow and to unfold thereby.
In the
Father's wise and loving plan for me, no burden can fall
upon me, no emergency can arise, no grief can overtake me,
before I am given the grace and strength to meet them.
A rich,
full life is not determined by outer circumstances and
relationships. These can be contributory to it, but cannot
be the source. I am happy or unhappy because of what I
think and feel.
I can never
lose anything that belongs to me, nor can I posses what is
not really mine.
To never
run from a problem: either it will chase me or I will run
into another just like it, although it may have a
different face or name.
To have no
concern for tomorrow. Today is the yesterday over which I
had concern.
To never
bang on a closed door: Wait for it to open and then go
through it.
A person
who has come into my life has come either to teach me
something, or to learn something from me.
- You have
the right to be you-the way you are. the way you want
to be.
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- You have
the right to grow, to change, to become, to strive. to
reach for any goal, to be limited only by your degree
of talent and amount of effort.
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- You have
the right to privacy-in marriage, family, or any
relationship or group-the right to keep a part of your
life secret, no matter how trivial or important,
merely because you want it to be that way. You have
the right to be alone part of the each day, each week
and each year to spend time with and on yourself.
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- You have
the right to be loved and to love, to be accepted,
cared for, and adored, and you have the right to
fulfill that right.
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- You have
the right to ask questions of anyone at anytime in any
matter that effects your life, so long as it is your
business to do so; and to be listened to and taken
seriously.
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- You have
the right to self-respect and to do everything you
need to do to increase your self-esteem, so long as
you hurt no one in doing so.
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- You have
the right to be happy, to find something in the world
that is meaningful and rewarding to you and that gives
you a sense of completeness.
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- You have
the right to be trusted and to trust and to be taken
at your word. If you are wrong, you have the right to
be given a chance to make a good if possible.
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- You have
the right to change your mind.
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- You have
the right to be free as long as you act responsibly
and are mindful of the rights of others and of those
obligations that you entered into freely.
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- You have
the right to win, to succeed, to compete, to make
plans. to see those plans fulfilled. to become the
best you can possibly become.
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- You have
a right to boundaries and limit, a right to be
intentional, a right to choice.
When
God Made Fathers
When the
good Lord was creating Fathers, he started with a tall
frame.
A female
angel nearby said, "What kind of a Father is that? If
you're going to make children so close to the ground, why
have you put the Father up so high? He won't be able to
shoot marbles without kneeling, tuck a child in bed
without bending, or even kiss a child without
stooping"
God smiled
and said, "Yes, but if I make him child size, who
would children have to look up to?"
And when
God made a Father's hands, they were large. The angel
shook her head and said,"Large hands can't manage
diaper pins, small buttons, rubber bands on pony tails, or
even remove splinters caused from baseball bats."
Again God
smiled and said, "I know, but they're large enough to
hold everything a small boy empties from his pockets, yet
small enough to cup a child's face in them."
Then God
molded long slim legs and broad shoulders, "Do you
realize you just made a Father without a lap?" The
angel chuckled.
God said,
"A Mother needs a lap. A Father needs strong
shoulders to pull a sled, to balance a boy on a bicycle,
or to hold a sleepy head on the way home from the
circus."
When God
was in the middle of creating the biggest feet any one had
ever seen, the angel could not contain herself any longer.
"That's not fair. Do you honestly think those feet
are going to get out of bed early in the morning when the
baby cries, or walk through a birthday party without
crushing one or two of the guests?"
God again
smiled and said, "They will work. You will see. They
will support a small child who wants to ride to Branbury
Cross or scare mice away from a summer cabin, or display
shoes that will be a challenge to fill." God worked
throughout the night, giving the Father few words, but a
firm authoritative voice; eyes that see everything, but
remain calm and tolerant.
Finally,
almost as an after thought, He added tears. Then he turned
to the angel and said, "Now are you satisfied he can
love as much as a Mother can?"
The angel
said nothing more.
(Erma
Bombeck)
I've
Learned ...
I've
learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can
do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've
learned that no matter how much I care, some people just
don't care back.
I've
learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who
you have in your life that counts.
I've
learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes.
After that, you'd better know something.
I've
learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best
others can do, but to the best you can do.
I've
learned that it's not what happens to people that's
important. It's what they do about it.
I've
learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are
always two sides.
I've
learned that it's taking me a long time to become the
person I want to be.
I've
learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to
think.
I've
learned that you should always leave loved ones with
loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've
learned that you can keep going long after you think you
can't.
I've
learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter
how we feel.
I've
learned that either you control your attitude or it
controls you.
I've
learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a
relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had
better be something else to take its place.
I've
learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be
done when it needs to be done, regardless of the
consequences.
I've
learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
I've
learned that there are people who love you dearly, but
just don't know how to show it.
I've
learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've
learned that my best friend and I can do anything or
nothing and have the best time.
I've
learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you
when you're down may be the ones to help you get back up.
I've
learned that I'm getting more and more like my grandma,
and I'm kinda happy about it.
I've
learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to
be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've
learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over
the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've
learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way
you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all
they have.
I've
learned that maturity has more to do with what types of
experiences you've had and what you've learned from them
and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've
learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are
unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating,
and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it.
I've
learned that your family won't always be there for you. It
may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take
care of you and love you and teach you to trust people
again. Families aren't biological.
I've
learned that no matter how good a friend someone is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you
must forgive them for that.
I've
learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by
others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've
learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the
world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've
learned that our background and circumstances may have
influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we
become.
I've
learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced
to choose sides even when I don't want to.
I've
learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't
mean they don't love each other. And just because they
don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've
learned that sometimes you have to put the individual
ahead of their actions.
I've
learned that we don't have to change friends if we
understand that friends change.
I've
learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick
it in your underwear drawer.
I've
learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a
secret. It could change your life forever.
I've
learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the
most holes in them.
I've
learned that two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different.
I've
learned that no matter how you try to protect your
children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt
in the process.
I've
learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in
love.
I've
learned that no matter the consequences, those who are
honest with themselves, get further in life.
I've
learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the
trick is self-control.
I've
learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you
are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the
times you need them most.
I've
learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don't even know you.
I've
learned that even when you think you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength
to help.
I've
learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease
emotional pains.
I've
learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is
offered to us.
I've
learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a
decent human being.
I've
learned that the people you care most about in life are
taken from you too soon.
I've
learned that although the word "love" can have
many different meanings, it loses value when overly used.
I've
learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line
between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and
standing up for what you believe.
I've
learned that no matter how fast or how far you go, you
can't outrun God.
I've
learned that no matter how far away I've been, He'll
always welcome me back.
I've
learned that love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to
the next person I see.
I've
learned that even if you do the right thing for the wrong
reason, it's still the wrong thing to do.
On
Relationships
Woody Allen
said it best when asked about "relationships,"
and he told a story to illustrate. He said I think this
story speaks about relationships.
A man came
in to see a psychiatrist. When the psychiatrist asked him
what the problem was, the man said, "Well, it's my
brother. I think he's crazy."
"Why
do you think that," asked the Doctor.
"Well,"
said the man, "he thinks he's a chicken."
"Hmmm
.." the doctor replied, "that does sound sort of
strange. Why don't you bring him in."
"I
can't," said the man.
"Well,
why not," asked the doctor.
"Because,
I need the eggs." the man said.
I guess we
are intertwined a little more than we like to think. And,
we always see the other's strangeness even though we have
just as much of our own strangeness, and often we have
"complimentary" strangeness.
(Attributed
to Woody Allen)
The
Perfect Girl
A friend
asked a gentleman how it is that he never married ?
Replied the
gentleman, "Well, I guess I just never met the right
woman ... I guess I've been looking for the perfect
girl."
"Oh,
come on now," said the friend, "Surely you have
met at least on girl that you wanted to marry."
"Yes,
there was one girl .. once. I guess she was the one
perfect girl .. the only perfect girl I really ever met.
She was just the right everything .. I really mean that
she was the perfect girl for me."
"Well,
why didn't you marry her," asked the friend.
"She
was looking for the perfect man," he said.
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Hang
In There
Nicolo
Paganini was a well-known and gifted nineteenth century
violinist. He was also well known as a great showman with
a quick sense of humor. His most memorable concert was in
Italy with a full orchestra. He was performing before a
packed house and his technique was incredible, his tone
was fantastic, and his audience dearly loved him. Toward
the end of his concert, Paganini was astounding his
audience with an unbelievable composition when suddenly
one string on his violin snapped and hung limply from his
instrument. Paganini frowned briefly, shook his head, and
continued to play, improvising beautifully.
Then
to everyone's surprise, a second string broke. And shortly
thereafter, a third. Almost like a slapstick comedy,
Paganini stood there with three strings dangling from his
Stradivarius. But instead of leaving the stage, Paganini
stood his ground and calmly completed the difficult number
on the one remaining string.
The
School of Life
- Respect
all people - the old, the young, the rich, and the not
so rich.
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- Try not
to worry.
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- Don't
tell everyone your business.
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- Be happy
with the things you have.
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- Exercise
every day.
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- Don't go
looking for trouble.
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- Look for
the good in everything and everyone.
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- Get
enough sleep.
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- Try to
forgive and forget.
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- Always
do what you think is right.
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- Don't
worry about what people think of you.
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- Spend
time with your family.
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- Make
time to see friends.
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- Don't
spend money that you don't have.
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- Try to
be happy.
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- Be kind.
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- Don't be
afraid to say what you think.
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- Try to
be the best that you can be.
(Bonnie
Tivenen, New Beginnings in Reading)
Finding
God Within and Without
How do I
find You God?
God is
Love.
If you have ever loved,
If you have ever been loved,
You have experienced God
from Within and Without
God is
Truth.
If you have ever told the truth,
If you have ever discovered Truth,
You have experienced God
from Within and Without
God is
Beauty.
If you have ever helped to create something beautiful,
If you have ever witnessed beauty in any of it's myriad
forms,
You have experienced God
from Within and Without
God is
Good.
If you have ever done or thought something good,
If you have ever recognized goodness in or through
another,
You have experienced God
from Within and Without
All of
those experiences, those gifts,
of Love, Truth, Beauty and Goodness
were directly from God through you. or to you.
Glad to
Meet You God. let's hang out together.
Just
For Today
Just for
today I will try to live through this day only, and not
tackle all my problems at once. I can do something for
twelve hours that would appall me if I felt that I had to
keep it up for a lifetime.
Just for
today I will be happy. This assumes to be true what
Abraham Lincoln said, that "Most folks are as happy
as they make up their minds to be."
Just for
today I will adjust myself to what is, and not try to
adjust everything to my own desires, I will take my
"luck" as it comes, and fit myself to it.
Just for
today I will try to strengthen my mind. I will study. I
will learn something useful. I will not be a mental
loafer. I will read something that requires effort,
thought and concentration.
Just for
today I will exercise my soul in three ways: I will do
somebody a good turn, and not get found out; if anybody
knows of it, it will not count. I will do a least two
things I don't want to do--just for exercise. I will not
show anyone that my feelings are hurt; they may be hurt,
but today I will not show it.
Just for
today I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can,
dress becomingly, keep my voice low, be courteous,
criticize not one bit. I won't find fault with anything,
nor try to improve or regulate anybody but myself.
Just for
today I will have a program. I may not follow it exactly,
but I will have it. I will save myself from two pests:
hurry and indecision.
Just for
today I will have a quiet half hour all by myself, and
relax. During this half hour, sometime, I will try to get
a better perspective of my life.
Just for
today I will be unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid
to enjoy what is beautiful, and to believe that as I give
to the world, so the world will give to me.
Thoughts
To Live By
- Faith is
the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of
things not seen.
- A good
example is the best sermon.
- Every
good thought is a prayer.
- What we
pray for may not be for our ultimate good.
"No" can be an answer to a prayer as well as
"Yes."
- If you
worry, why pray? If you pray, why worry?
- No one
is easier to deceive than oneself.
- The
greatest fault of all is to be conscious of none.
- Any good
that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any
fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer or
neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
- No
matter how hopeless the present problem may seem,
remember: This, too, shall pass.
- Living
in harmony with ourselves is essential to living in
harmony with others,
- Fear is
the enemy of good works; it is a deadly sickness of
the soul.
- More
things are accomplished by prayer than the world
realizes.
- Knowledge
advances one step at a time; let us be patient.
- One with
God is always in the majority.
- How poor
are they that have not patience; what wound did ever
heal but by degrees?
- No one's
knowledge can go beyond experience.
- The
misfortunes which are hardest to bear are those which
never come.
- Growth
is the only evidence of life.
- A person
who makes no mistakes usually does not make anything.
- Love is
understanding, acceptance, and tenderness. If it tries
to strangle and possess, it is not love.
- The more
often we think and act honestly, the stronger the
habit becomes.
- The
journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.
- The task
ahead of us is never as great as the Power within us.
- They
hurt the absent who quarrel with the drunken.
- Al-Anon
is a kissing cousin to invention because they were
both born of necessity.
- If you
find life is empty, try putting something into it.
- Beware
of the rubber conscience and the concrete heart.
- The
trouble with many of us is that in trying times we
stop trying.
Recipe
For A Happy Life
Take a
couple of whole months, clean them thoroughly of all
Bitterness, Rumors, Hate and Jealousy; in other words,
make them as fresh and as clean as possible.
Now cut
each month into 28, 30 or 31 different parts...
But don't
make up the whole batch at once..
Instead prepare it One Day At A Time.
Mix well
each day:
One part of
Faith,
One of Patience,
One of Courage,
One of Work,
Add one
part each of:
Hope,
Faithfulness,
Generosity
Kindness;
Blend with:
One part
Prayer,
One part Meditation
Good Deeds.
Season the
whole with:
a dash of
Good Spirit,
a sprinkle of Fun,
a pinch of Play
a cupful of Good Humor.
Pour all of
this into a Vessel Of Love,
Cook
thoroughly over Radiant Joy
Garnish
with Smiles
serve with Quietness, Unselfishness and Cheerfulness
And you are
bound to have a Happy Life.
A
Life In Your Hands
- If a
child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn;
-
- If a
child lives with hostility, he learns to fight;
-
- If a
child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy;
-
- If a
child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty;
-
- If a
child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient;
-
- If a
child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence;
-
- If a
child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate;
-
- If a
child lives with fairness, he learns justice;
-
- If a
child lives with security, he learns to have faith;
-
- If a
child lives with approval, he learns to like himself;
-
- If a
child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns
to find love in the world.
Xvxry
Pxrson Is Important
One manager
let employees know how valuable they are with the
following memo:
"You
Arx A Kxy Pxrson"
Xvxn
though my typxwritxr is an old modxl, it works vxry wxll
-- xxcxpt for onx kxy. You would think that with all thx
othxer kxys functioning propxrly, onx kxy not working
would hardly bx noticxd; but just onx kxy out of whack
sxxms to ruin thx wholx xffort.
You may say
to yoursxlf -- Wxll, I'm only onx pxrson. No onx will
noticx if I don't do my bxst. But it doxs makx a
diffxrxncx, bxcausx an xffxctivx organization nxxds activx
participation by xvxry onx to thx bxst of his or hxr
ability.
So, thx
nxxt timx you think you arx not important, rxmxmbxr my old
typxwritxr. You arx a kxy pxrson.
Be
Good To You
Be Yourself
-- Truthfully
Accept Yourself -- Gracefully
Value Yourself -- Joyfully
Forgive Yourself -- Completely
Treat Yourself -- Generously
Balance Yourself -- Harmoniously
Bless Yourself -- Abundantly
Trust Yourself -- Confidently
Love Yourself -- Wholeheartedly
Empower Yourself -- Prayerfully
Give Yourself -- Enthusiastically
Express Yourself -- Radiantly
Don't
Be Afraid To Fail
You've
failed many times, although you may not remember.
You fell down the first time you tried to walk.
You almost drowned the first time you tried to swim,
didn't you?
Did you hit the ball the first time you swung a bat?
Heavy hitters, the ones who hit the most home runs, also
strike out a lot.
R.H. Macy failed seven times before his store in New York
caught on.
English novelist John Creasey got 753 rejection slips
before he published 564 books.
Babe Ruth struck out 1,330 times, but he also hit 714 home
runs.
Don't worry about failure.
Worry about the chances you miss when you don't even try.
(A
message as published in the Wall Street Journal By
United Technologies Corporation)
The
Lion and The cougar
A
pointed fable is told about a young lion and a cougar.
Both thirsty, the animals arrived at their usual water
hole at the same time. They immediately began to argue
about who should satisfy their thirst first. The argument
became heated, and each decided he would rather die than
give up the privilege of being first to quench his thirst.
As they stubbornly confronted each other, their emotions
turned to rage. Their cruel attacks on each other were
suddenly interrupted. They both looked up. Circling
overhead was a flock of vultures waiting for the loser to
fall. Quietly, the two beasts turned and walked away. The
thought of being devoured was all they needed to end their
quarrel.
You
and Yourself
It is
rewarding to find someone whom you like, but it is
essential to like yourself.
It is
quickening to recognize someone as a good and decent human
being, but it is indispensable to view yourself as
acceptable.
It is a
delight to discover people who are worthy of respect,
admiration, and love, but it is vital to believe yourself
deserving of these things.
For you
cannot live in someone else. You cannot find yourself in
someone else. You cannot be given a life by someone else.
Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the
only one you will never leave nor lose.
To the
question of your life, you are the only answer. To the
problems of your life, you are the only solution.
Memos
From Your Child
- Don't
spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have
all I ask for ... I'm only testing you.
-
- Don't be
afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it .. it makes me
feel more secure.
-
- Don't
correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll
take much more notice if you talk to me in private.
-
- Don't
make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my
sense of values.
-
- Don't be
too upset if I say "I hate you." It isn't
that I hate you, but only that I need your attention.
-
- Don't
protect me from consequence. I need to learn the hard
way.
-
- Don't
take too much notice of my small ailment. Sometimes
they get me the attention I want.
-
- Don't
nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by
appearing deaf.
-
- Don't
make rash promises. Remember that I feel badly let
down when promises are broken.
-
- Don't
forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I
should like. This is why I'm not always accurate.
-
- Don't
tax my honesty too much. I am easily frightened into
telling lies.
-
- Don't be
inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me
lose my faith in you.
-
- Don't
put me off when I ask you questions. If you do, you
will find that I stop asking and seek my information
elsewhere.
-
- Don't
tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and
you can do much to try to understand.
-
- Don't
ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It
gives me too great a shock when I discover that you
are neither.
-
- Don't
ever think it beneath your dignity to apologize to me.
An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm to
you.
-
- Don't
forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very
difficult for you to keep pace with me but please try.
-
- Don't
forget I love experimenting. I couldn't get along
without it, so please put up with it.
-
- Don't
forget that I can't thrive without lots of love. But I
don't need to tell you all the time, do I?
A
Woman's Place
There is a
cute story told about the Governor of Texas, then Mark
White.
Governor
White and his wife were driving through the open Texas
countryside one day, out for a relaxing drive and talk
The couple
happened to be around the area where Mrs. White grew up,
and as they pulled into a gas station to fuel up and check
out the car, Mark noticed a little nervousness with his
wife. He didn't say anything, but when the gas station
attendant came out to their car, Mark began to notice what
was really going on. Both his wife and the attendant
looked surprised to see each other, and they acted with
that awkwardness that two people have when they've been
close in the past, but weren't anymore.
Governor
White pretended not to notice this. They finished at the
gas station and continued back down the highway. The car
fell silent and neither said a word. For a long time they
remained silent, and all the while Mrs. White kept looking
out the window, staring off out into the distance. Mark
was considerate and patient with this silence, and he
continued to drive in the silence. But after the silence
had gone on for almost an hour, he interrupted, trying to
break the silence.
"Honey,
I couldn't help but notice how you and that gas station
attendant looked at each other. You were involved with
each other at one point, weren't you," he asked ?
"Well,
yea," She responded, quitely.
"Well,
I guess I know how you feel. You were probably thinking
about that and needed some space, right," he
continued ?
"Yea,"
she said again.
"I
guess you were probably thinking about how different your
two lives had become. I guess you were thinking that if
you had married him, then you'd be the wife of a gas
station attendant now, instead of my wife. Right," he
said ?
"Well,
No. Actually I was thinking that he'd be the governor
now."
A
Nike Commercial
Sooner
or later, you start taking yourself seriously.
You know when you need a break.
You know when you need a rest.
You know what to get worked up about and what to get rid
of.
And you know when it's time to take care of yourself, for
yourself.
To do something that makes you stronger, faster, more
complete.
Because you know it's never too late to have a life.
And never too late to change one.
Just
Do It !
(This
is an actual NIKE advertisement found in a magazine)
Why
Worry
40% Of the
things I worry about will never happen, for anxiety is the
result of a tired mind.
30% Concern
old decisions which cannot be altered.
12% center
in criticisms, mostly untrue, made by people who feel
inferior.
10% is
related to my health which worsens while I worry.
8% is
legitimate, showing that life does have real problems
which may be met head on when I have eliminated senseless
worries.
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